How Can I Provide Bathroom Help for My Elderly Parent(s)?
The reality of family caregiving is that nothing is off limits, and that includes the bathroom. When your aging parents need help with toileting due to physical or mental limitations, knowing how to assist them is key to preventing falls and medical complications.
Use this guide to make toileting a safer, more comfortable experience for your elderly parents.
Fall-Proof the Bathroom
Unfortunately, bathrooms are among the most hazardous spaces for seniors. Slippery floors and a lack of accessible equipment can easily lead to dangerous falls and injuries.
You can support your parents in their independence by fall-proofing the bathroom. This may include installing handrails, grab bars, shower chairs, and other accommodations.
Shower Chairs
A shower chair works best for seniors who can’t stand or maneuver in the shower. If your parent uses a wheelchair, a shower chair is a nonnegotiable item for allowing them to clean themselves with dignity.
Slip-Proof Surfaces
You should also lay anti-slip mats across the floor and on the bottom of the bathtub to make the surface more stable for your parents. They may need a helping hand as they enter and exit the shower to avoid tripping over the lip of the tub.
Walk-In Showers and Bathtubs
A walk-in shower or bathtub is a great investment for an older family member. With a door that swings open to offer a hazard-free entrance into the bathing space, your parent will feel safer and more independent.
Nightlights
Keep some lighting in the bathroom at all times to help prevent nighttime falls. You can use a nightlight wall plug-in or keep a lamp on for visibility and safety.
Respect Your Parents’ Privacy and Autonomy
Toileting and bathing are two very private acts, and seniors can be embarrassed by needing extra help. Respect your parents’ need for privacy and independence by allowing them as much autonomy as possible.
This might look like transferring them to the toilet and then standing outside of the bathroom. You can also hold up a towel to protect their privacy while they undress or use the toilet.
Never shame your parents for their bathroom habits. Avoid making jokes at their expense or talking about their bathroom activities with other people.
Be Patient
Above all, demonstrate patience. Your parents are trying their best to remain independent when it comes to personal tasks like toileting and showering.
Remind yourself of this whenever you’re tempted to rush them in the bathroom. Your patience serves as valuable support to your parents during this difficult time.
Keep the Bathroom Stocked With Supplies and Comfort Items
As their caregiver, you can support your parents by keeping the bathroom stocked with essentials. This way, they don’t have to worry about finding something when it runs out or asking you for help. Make sure the following items are easily available at all times:
- Toilet paper
- Wet wipes
- Hairbrushes or combs
- Q-tips
- Adult diapers or absorbent underwear
- Extra clothes
- Shampoo and conditioner
- Soap
- Loofahs, sponges, or washcloths
- Bath towels
- Reading materials (magazines, books, etc.)
- Toothbrushes
- Toothpaste
- Lotion
Restocking and organizing your parents’ bathroom goes a long way in communicating respect and love. It also helps them remain independent in the bathroom.
Hire Professional Support
If you’re overwhelmed and not sure how to best support your aging parents, don’t be afraid to hire caregivers. Your parents might even prefer that a non-family member help them with toileting.
A professional caregiver from an in-home care service can keep your parents comfortable while ensuring the bathroom remains free of major safety concerns.
Supporting Elderly Parents Through Bathroom Difficulties
It’s never easy for seniors or their caregivers to navigate bathroom challenges, and it’s okay to ask for professional help when you need it.
Do your best to eliminate safety hazards and provide your parents with everything they need to have comfortable bathroom experiences. No matter what solutions you come up with, your parents are sure to benefit from your assistance.
If you or your family member is considering in-home care as part of a plan to age in place, contact Family Matters In-Home Care today for a free consultation. Our team is dedicated to supporting your family and helping older adults enjoy life in the comfort of their own home for as long as possible.
Some of the services offered by Family Matter In-Home Care include: Alzheimer’s & Dementia Care, Bed & Wheelchair Transfer Assistance, Companionship, Housekeeping & Meal Preparation, Personal Care, Recovery Care, and Transportation.
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